Peter How Do You Create An Online Profile That Attracts New Friends?
It’s now time to create your profile. It is important to have a profile because it’s your first impression. Your profile is the first thing that people notice about you, and it can help them decide if they want to develop a friendship.
1. Choose a unique username
You can save time by using your real name on some social media sites.
In some cases, like chat rooms or many apps, you will use your username as your primary identifier.
A good username should be unique and convey something about you to other users. A username like “PizzaGirl85”, for example, is not very original because it only tells users that you are female, you probably enjoy pizza and 1985 was a significant date for you.
“SciFiAdam”, for example, is a unique and interesting user name because it 1) tells users that you are interested in science-fiction, which will attract other science-fiction fans, and 2) you have Adam as your first name, which makes you stand out from other sci-fi fans or users with “sci fi” in the username.
It’s a good idea if you plan on using multiple apps or sites. Consistency between platforms is important because your username can be your “Internet name” and make you more recognizable. It will also help you to be identified by other users, who may use multiple websites.
2. Include a list of your interests and hobbies
List your interests and hobbies to give others a better idea of who you and what you like to do. You can also share any achievements or experiences that are related to your hobby. If you are a runner for example, you can list some races that you have run. You can also share names of games that you have “tested” for a company. These details will attract people with similar interests.
3. You should make it known that you are looking to meet new people.
If you end your “About Me”, say something like “I enjoy meeting new people. Please send me a message to chat!” People will feel more comfortable contacting you, because you have already given the green light.
4. What type of friend would you like to meet?
Make your preferences known if you want friends who are the same gender, age, or geographical area. If you are looking for people who share similar religious beliefs then you can include your religion and explain why it is important to you in your “About Me”. You’ll attract people who are compatible if you do this.
5. Honesty is the best policy.
As with face-toface friendships: pretending to “fit in” by liking things you don’t really like will not attract people with whom you can form a real bond over shared interests. The truth will eventually come out, and this can cause issues in the friendship.
How to establish a positive online presence
Try to become a familiar, friendly face in the online community. Treat everyone with respect. People are more likely to speak to you if they see you as a friendly person who adds value to the conversation.
Here are some tips on how to build a good online reputation and establish your presence:
1. When you join a forum or group, introduce yourself.
You can write a short, positive message stating your name, the reason you joined the forum and an overview of your interest. It is likely that you will receive some positive comments, which can start a conversation.
2. Regularly contribute to discussion
Try to be active in the community. You don’t need to post daily or speak to everyone.
Participate in discussions, for example, if your forum is active. Your opinion is important. Joining a group on Facebook about a topic that interests you? Post encouraging and friendly comments to other people’s photos and posts. Also, share your work by posting your own posts.
3. Avoid arguing or being negative
It’s okay to debate certain topics online. Communities encourage discussions about controversial issues. As a rule, it’s harder to make new friends if your behavior is often hostile, passive-aggressive or pedantic.
Try to remain neutral or positive unless someone specifically asks you for honest feedback or constructive criticism. You may appear negative and critical even if your comments are uninvited.
4. Welcoming newcomers
You can write a short “Welcome to the group” message for new members. You will come across as friendly, approachable and trustworthy .
