THE SECRET TO GETTING QUALITY MEN TO APPROACH YOU

Where can I meet single men of quality?

I recommend they go online to date, attend Meetup groups or singles events, or hire a matchmaker. I tell them to just take a look around.

There are many single quality men!

It’s hard to meet these people, right?

It would be great if you were approached by attractive men at the supermarket, in the street, the gym, or during happy hour and asked out.

It’s easy to do, whether you believe it or not.

I’d like to tell you about Janet, my former client.

Janet was 40 years old and had never been asked out or approached in a social situation (like at a party or happy hour). Janet is attractive and very nice, but she has never been asked out in a social setting.

When a customer tells me that she is never approached, I can tell there’s something in her mannerisms that sends the message: Stay away.

I thought that Janet was in the same boat, so I asked her to try something new.

She was planning to go out for happy hour that evening with her coworkers. I asked if she’d be willing to try an experiment. She replied “sure!”

Janet was asked to smile at happy hour as if she had never before done so.

I told her that she should smile when she spoke to someone or listened to their words. I told her she should smile, even if standing alone. Janet was expecting her cheek muscles to hurt from all the smiling. You get the idea.

She left my office after we had pinky-sweared. Janet was told to smile as if nobody was watching at happy hour that night.

My phone rang the next morning at 8:30 AM. Janet was very excited.

She said: ” I’m sure you won’t believe what happened to me last night!” ” Two really nice men asked me out, another guy said that I was the friendliest person at the bar.

Wow!

Janet was finally approached at 40. Even better, she was asked out. Twice.

All it took was a smile.

Janet was not dressed up, nor did she wear make-up. (I don’t recommend this – I love cute clothes and feminine outfits). It’s very important to note that she didn’t do anything different than SMILE and two cute guys asked her out.

It would be amazing if you could experience that.

I’m wondering…

Is your resting face a scowl, lol? Do you spend more time on your phone than making eye contact when you are out and about?

This is what I’d like you to do…

Next time you are at a party or happy hour (or at Starbucks, at the dry cleaners, at the grocery store, or on the Metro), SMILE a lot.

It works. I’ve seen it. Even walking down the road, I would meet great men. What can I tell you, I am a happy person!

I treat all those around me as if they were already my friends. You should also do your best to spread warmth and kindness wherever you go.

You can compliment someone you don’t know (just yesterday, I told a guy that I liked his pink sweater).

Hello!

I participate in conversations. (People are generally nice, and no one has given me a dirty glance yet).

I am a LOT of fun with people and I also smile a lot.

Smiles are THE BEST way of breaking the ice. They invite people to speak with you, and they show that you are warm, friendly, and ready to meet someone.

Please let me know what you think! I believe that a simple smile can transform your life.

If I hadn’t greeted my husband in a restaurant six years ago, he would never have said “hello”.

Enjoy a smiley day!