Peter FRUSTRATED? Try these 5 tips to turn your love life around!
Last week I had an AMAZING week! I was able to attend one wedding of two of my clients. My matchmaking client Paul got married in a beautiful church near Washington DC, and we celebrated at a winery in idyllic Virginia countryside with 35 of our closest friends and family members (and me and my husband). It was a wonderful day!
What a wonderful service!
We LOVE weddings! )
Not so long ago, Paul was frustrated by dating. He sought my advice because he was frustrated.
My advice to my clients is surprising simple. You can attract your soulmate by changing your dating mindset.
Has dating got you down?
I understand how you might feel if you are frustrated. It can be hard to remain positive when you have to wait a long time to find the right person.
The more you stress and worry about dating, you’re less likely to find your soulmate.
Enjoy the ride and have fun!
If you are feeling down about dating, there are five things that you can do to boost your love life and bring happiness and positivity to your life.
1. Decide to enjoy yourself!
Do not go on every date with the expectation that he or her is “the one”. Enjoy the person you are with and learn about them. Find the “gooey centre” of this person! Find a new friend. If he or she is a potential partner, then that’s even better!
2. Have a sense of humor that is outrageous!
You and I both take ourselves way too seriously at times. Find the humor in everything you do. This will make dating and life more enjoyable. Sometimes, people and situations are hilarious! You can laugh off the situation!
3. Have faith.
Do you think that everything happens with a purpose and the Universe is looking out for your best interest? I sure do.
Even though I was single and I didn’t know it, I believed that I would meet “the one”, no matter how frustrated or sad I felt. I believed it! This was the prayer I said every night before going to bed:
It worked!
I believe that prayers and affirmations can create positive energy. It is powerful to know that love will come (even if it takes time).
4. Thank you “.
It’s easy to focus on the things you don’t have or compare yourself with others.
Stop negative thoughts when they start to creep in and instead say ” Thank you“. Be grateful for all the good things in your life, big and small. People all over the globe would do anything to be in you shoes.
You can feel happier if you focus on the blessings in your life. When you are happy, you will attract people to you.
5. Do stuff!
Grab life by its you-know-whats and stop working so hard!
Plan fun activities and spend time with the people you love! Get started! Make a list of things you want to do and then get moving. Travel is something you want to do. Grab a buddy or take a solo trip! Join a Meetup Group (everyone is alone, so no worries!). Have fun! Take a dance class, attend a lecture, hike, or go dancing. Fun-loving people are attractive!
Stay positive, because you have a lot of good things in store for you. Don’t forget to take a moment to smell the fresh coffee and enjoy this amazing journey.
