Peter Why don’t guys approach me? 8 STEPS TO GET NOTICED
Would you like the guy at Starbucks who is talking to himself?
You may feel like you are invisible to men at parties or happy hours. They talk with your girlfriends, but ignore you.
You may notice that men make eye contact with you, but still refuse to come over.
It’s frustrating, isn’t it? You’re not the only one – I get many clients who feel exactly the same.
You may have wondered why men don’t approach you. I’m here to tell you that you are not the problem. All you need is some expert advice. ).
See, I teach simple strategies to my clients that will make them irresistible (sometimes over night – really!) Now I will share these strategies with you.
Once you follow these eight steps, you will start to turn heads immediately!
1. Smile
You might not be aware that you are sending a message to men telling them “stay away” if they don’t approach you often or ask you out. Your smile invites you to come over. It also shows how nice you are. If you appear to be a nice person, men will feel more comfortable saying “hello” to you. Never underestimate the power of smiling. It’s HUGE. Every day, practice wherever you are. Smile at people you don’t know, at your friends, and at the cute guy in the next room. He will probably say “hello!”
2. Dress to Impress
Wear a dress after work and some color instead of your business attire! Men love femininity, it’s just a fact! Studies show that wearing color makes people appear happier, warmer, nicer, and more open. Wear something that makes your feel confident and pretty. Your outfit should let him know that he is on a date, not a meeting. Enjoy shopping for your dating wardrobe.
3. Let your eyes linger
Hold his gaze. I know it is hard. Don’t turn your gaze away when you notice a man you like. Look right at him instead! Hold your gaze in his eyes for 3 to 5 seconds. If you add a smile to the end of your message, he will notice. Be prepared for him to say “hi”.
4. Enjoy yourself A LOT
People who are positive and have fun are attractive. Have fun, no matter what. Celebrate, laugh, and play! Enjoy your life and live it with excitement. He will notice and be tempted to join in the fun!
5. Break the Ice
Say “hello”. It’s simple to compliment him on his shoes or shirt. Comment on the weather. Just say something. You have nothing to fear and everything to gain. Go on, chat with him!
6. You can give him access to your computer
Make sure that he can reach you, whether you are out with your friends or at a bar. Sit sideways at the bar. At a party, get closer to him. Standing where he is able to easily approach you will make it easier for him. It’s easier for him if you are close to him and have easy access. Help him!
7. Take care of yourself
It’s in their DNA. Now is the perfect time to take care of your health. If you want to lose weight, exercise, eat well and get fit, this is the right time. Men will notice when you look and feel your best. Your confidence will make you irresistible. It’s a win for you to take great care of yourself!
8. Get happy
It is obvious when you are feeling balanced, calm, relaxed and simply GOOD! Everyone notices when your spirit shines. These good vibrations attract men who are in a good place themselves. Take care of yourself and enjoy the attention!
It’s time to start putting my top tips into practice.
The Universe will reward you for your courage and warmth when you dare to share with others. Your love is all around you. Go get him!
With love
Michelle
P.S. About six years ago, I followed my own advice and met my wonderful husband in a pub (yes, a pub)! When Rob, a cute young man asked if I was using the bar stool next to him, I smiled a lot and was very friendly. He took the seat and left. He watched me and my girlfriend laughing across the bar. Rob was curious and had to come (he later told me he thought that I looked happy, friendly and sweet). The rest is history.
This man is the man I wake up next to every morning. He’s a man that I trust, and I feel comfortable giving him my heart because I smiled at him BIG in a bar while having fun.
Even the smallest of gestures can have a big impact on your life. Give these eight steps a go and prepare to meet someone great!
Cheers!
