This is what happens when you end it!

Noreen emailed me six weeks ago to tell me that she and the man she was seeing had ended their relationship.

He had been dating her for a couple of months but didn’t make her feel important. He did not introduce her to any of his friends or children, he cancelled on her many times and he was too busy to be with her regularly. She was frustrated, even though they had great chemistry and had a blast together when they were alone. He told her he loved her.

Noreen’s boyfriend, despite his (broken promises) and enthusiastic adoration, was either unwilling or incapable of being the partner she desired.

I told Noreen that she deserved a man that showed her with action that he is excited to date her and serious about her.

She ended the relationship at my request.

Noreen, a newly single woman, emailed me to ask to resume where we left off. She wanted to schedule a session of coaching. I replied, but did not hear from her. I assumed she was traveling for the summer.

Fast forward a few more weeks. I sent Noreen an email to see if she would be ready to meet. I received this email:

“I’m totally in love with a new man!” I now know how it feels when a man is truly, deeply into you. Trust me, I’m following your rules exactly. I will keep you updated !”

I replied, ” Wow! Excellent!”

She sent me an email again. Had I not moved on to reopen my Match account and reopened it, this would never have happened …”

I replied, “The best thing you can do when looking for ‘the One’ is to get out of the wrong relationship as soon as possible. You did well. You’ve got it.

Noreen quickly ended a relationship that was frustrating (with someone who she loved) and met someone BETTER. I experienced the same thing years ago.

I was in a relationship with a very sexy Spaniard, but I knew that he wasn’t the one. To both his and my surprise, I broke up with him abruptly (despite our fabulous trip to Miami).

Just two weeks later, I met my husband!

I decided to stop wasting time with someone who I knew was not my future husband after a series of frustrating long-term relationships. As Noreen’s dating coach, I told her the same thing.

She’s in love with a man that adores and fancies her!

Next time you’re in a relationship that isn’t working, or isn’t right for you, it’s best to move on. Do not waste time with the wrong person again. Have faith in your love.